Vayigash
R. Moshe Cordovero on Parashat Vayigash, read on Shabbat Vayigash — with one of this week's three questions for the two of you.
Vayigash is the climax of the Yosef story. Yehudah pleads for Binyamin's life. Yosef can no longer hold it in. He sends out the Egyptians, breaks down weeping, and reveals himself: Ani Yosef. I am Yosef. Is my father still alive? The brothers, struck silent, cannot even respond. And then Yosef says one of the most extraordinary lines in the Torah: Do not be sad, do not be angry with yourselves that you sold me here — for it was to preserve life that God sent me before you. Cordovero hears this as the structure of every true reconciliation. Not that the wrong didn't happen. Not that it didn't hurt. But that the larger story is bigger than the wrong, and the larger story is what we choose to live inside. Forgiveness is not forgetting. Forgiveness is putting the wrong inside a story large enough to hold it.
Tell me about a wrong between us — small or large — that we have already, quietly, put inside a larger story. What did the larger story sound like, when you began to tell it to yourself?
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